2 Much 2 Eat, She Can't Swallow

Yesterday me and my homegirl sat down in Cheddars (best Margaritas in town) and had a heart to heart about our dear friend Neicy. Poor Neicy has 3 dudes on her arm... her Teddy Bear, her Fighter, and Chef Boyardee (he ain't better than my chef but that's another story); however shoe ain't to keen on what she wants right now. She started dating the Teddy Bear back in May...it was cool at first but then he started neglecting her, so she found comfort in the Fighter a month later. He ain't really been on his job so she's been telling Chef Boyardee how much she loves him and wants to be with him, but he's too far away (poor girl has too man chefs, animals, and athletes in her zone). Me and Red really couldn't give Neicy our full input cause she doing way too much and we got our own mess going on, but maybe someone else can help. She says she really cares for the Teddy Bear cause he's good with the kids, but he has a hidden agenda she just ain't quite sure about it yet. The Fighter, he's mad cool, but there ain't no Sparks flying. Then there's Chef Boyardee...he treats her good, dicks her down well, but the connection with him and the kids ain't all that it could be. It has her thinking if they decided to make it official (wedding bell type official) that he would favor his kids with her over hers with another man. And that would be fucked up of course. So what is it that she should do? Anything would be helpful, cause my girl is pitiful!